i have learned

i have learned that to love is a great risk. It requires you to get hurt while loving.  Yes, i am into moving on, but i can say that the process of moving on is not easy. I need to be strong and firm with what i have decided and it really breaks my heart to let go of what i have loved the most, but i know that it would be for my utter best to let go since through the years we’ve been together i have come to realize that we both don’t know each other that well. For almost 6 yrs i lived with a love that was full of lies and hurt. Although i don’t blame that person for what happened because i know somehow i have hurt him to, but damn  for almost 6 years he still don’t know me that well and it also hurts knowing that the person you’ve loved doesn’t care about you anymore and it was quite unfair for my part to wait for him just to test me how much I love him and that was according to him and thats why i have decided to move on and start a new chapter in my life. Learn to love the freedom of being single and happy.

Posted: August 30, 2008 Comments (0)

Life goes through

Life goes through changes so fast, you think your life is great, than one of your best friends dies. Then you think you found someone you truly love, only to figure out, she doesn’t love you back. You cry and cry and cry, but nothing changes. You realize, that you must accept things for what they are, and what they have made you become. Everything in life changes you in some way. Even the smallest things. If you do not accept these changes, you do not accept yourself. For through these changes brings new and greater things to you, making you wiser, as time progresses. To avoid these changes is a loss. You only live your life once. Do not waste a minute of it avoiding things. Let them come to you, and learn from them. There’s always tomorrow.

Posted: August 28, 2008 Comments (0)

will you ever learn?

So what’s the point in all of this
When you will never change
The days have passed
The weather’s changed
Should I be sorry?
Could I be sorry?

I did it all, all for you
Hoping you would see
Your eyes are dull
Your hands are clenched
Are we ready? Are we ready?

But you, you think about yourself
Only but yourself
But what about

Un-lonely nights
Romantic moments
The love, the love
What about them?
Throw it all away

You know me well, you know it’s wrong
Then what is it you feel?
You hide behind those perfect smiles
It won’t fool me, cause you already did

The perfect dates
The sweetest kisses
The love, the love
What about them?
Throw it all away

Posted: August 26, 2008 Comments (0)

dungue fever attack

Guys lot of people now has been admitted here in our place because of dungue fever. This illness is very dangerous because it can cause to death. That’s why I will share to you the symptoms of dungue fever so that you will be aware.

Here are the symptoms of dungue fever:

- sudden develeopment of continuous high fever lasting for 2-7 days

- severe frontal headahe

- pain behind the eyes which worsens with eye movement

- muscle and joint pains

- loss of sense of taste and appetite

- measles-like rash over chest and upper limbs

- nausea and vomiting ( red and tiny spots on the skin )

- severe and continuous stomach pains

- pale, cold or clammy skin

- bleeding from the nose mouth and gums, and skin bruising when fever starts to subside

- frequent vomiting with or without blood, vomiting of coffee-colored matter

- dark-colored stool

- sleepiness and restlessness

- constant crying

- excessive thrist ( dry mouth )

- rapid weak pulse

- difficulty in breathing

- fainting

If you ever have experience or observe these kinds of symptoms you must consult to the doctor immediately.

Posted: August 24, 2008 Comments (0)

burn your stress

Some times stress overload becomes such a common feature of our lives that are unaware it’s happening. Here are some common signs that incidcate hight levels of stress:

- Grinding your teeth (particularly while sleeping).

- Migraine or tension-induced headaches.

- Insomnia, fitful sleeping, nightmares.

- Anxiety.

- Shoulder, neck or back pain.

- Sexual dysfunction.

- Chronic fatigue.

- Irregular pulse are (racing pulse).

- Skin eruptions, skin dryness.

- Spontaneous sweating.

- Poor concentration.

- Frequent flu or colds.

- Lack of physical coordination.

- Impulsive, irrational behavior.

- Speech problems.

Posted: August 22, 2008 Comments (0)

the past

Remembering the times that i thought that i would never love again brings back bad memories, knowing that i was so afraid to get hurt again. I then became numb and i remember living my life like i was dead, no more emotions nor pain felt, but then you came into my life and loving you made my life change. My life has been filled with hope, love and because of you i learned how to love honestly. I learned how to forgive and forget. I then became a better person and like the song maybe its you. I know that its you that i’ve been waiting for all of my life. I love you more than my life and always remember that i will always love you forever.

Posted: August 20, 2008 Comments (0)

Rich and Famous

Becoming rich and famous does not guaranteed contentment. If it did, multimillionaire athletes would not jeoparize their careers by using illicit drugs. If it did a wealthy lawyer would not have tearfully told me that he would gladly trade everything he had for a change in the behavior of his sons. If it did, the occurrence of multiple marriages among celebrities would not be common place. obviously contentment must come from a source other than wealth and fame.

Posted: August 18, 2008 Comments (0)

What stress does to the body?

At the first sign of alarm, chemicals released by the pituitary and adernal glands and the nerve endings automatically trigger thses physical reactions to stress:

    * Heart rate incrases to move blood to the muscles and brain.
    * Blood pressure goes up.
    * Breathing rate incrases.
    * Digestion slows down.
    * Perspiration increases.
    * Pupils dilate.
    * You feel a rush of strength.

You are experiencing the "fight or flight" phenomenon - your body is tense, alert, and rady for action. After this reaction to a real or perceived threat, our bodies stay on alert until we feel the danger has passed. When the stressor has gone, the brain signals an "all clear" and our body gradually returns to normal. Problems with stress occur when the brain fails to give the "all clear" signal. If the alarm state lasts too long, you begin to suffer from the consequences of constant stress. This is why unrelieved stress can lead to many health problems.

Posted: August 16, 2008 Comments (0)

Telling the Difference

This time of the year is the month when we bid good bye to summer and welcome the rainy season. Oftentimes it is during this transition period that we see common illnesses of the repiratory tract and we cannot differentiate the symptoms of a common cold or flu. The presenting smyptoms are quite similar even the initial medications are the same. So if you ask someone do you have a cold or flu, we often get varying responses mainly because it is difficult to differentiate this two entities unless a physician is consulted, then we can draw the demarcation line. So to help you recognize one from the other, read on and see the difference…

Common Colds

The common cold is our most ubiquitous illness. On average, adults have two to four colds a year, and some children have 8 to 12. People who work in schools or health setting, or who have small children, are more likely to catch multiple cold each year.

Symptoms may vary, but the typical cold starts with a sore throat, sneezing, nasal congestion, and runny nose, frequently followed by a cough that can linger for a week to 10 days.

More than 200 different viruses can cause cold symptoms, but the most common are in the rhinovirus famliy and are highly contagious. They are often transmitted through the air when someone who has a cold expels them by sneezing or coughing and someone else inhales them. They can also travel from one person to another by direct contact with fingers, tissues, or other objects that can harbor virus. Even though so many different viruses are involved, they all produce similar symptoms, which is why all are classified as a single illness. Colds can occur at any time of the year.

There are no cures for the common cold, and prescription drugs are no more effective than those you can purchase over the counter. A doctor’s care is usually not necessary unless complications develop, or you have a chronic disease such as asthma, emphysema, cystic fibrosis, or diabetes that can be worsened by a cold. The most common complication is a secondary bacterial infection of the ears, throat, sinuses, or lungs. If this should occur, antibiotics ma be necessary. Generally, you should see a doctor if symptoms do not improve in seven to 10 days. Go sooner if your breathing is difficult or painful or you have persistentfever and chills, an earache, a severe headache, enlarge and tender lymph nodes in the neck, or other severe or unusual symptoms.

Contagious respiratory infection. Some people mistakenly refer to a cold or any upper respiratory disorder as the flu. But in reality, the flu is more severe than cold. Not only it can lead to pneumonia, but some types of the disease are even fatal.

Your own observation of symptoms is usually enough to tell you that you have the flu, particularly if there has been an epidemic in your area. Flu symptoms are similar to those of a bad cold-fever, sore throat, muscle aches, running nose, cough, and last longer. If you consult a doctor, she will do a physical examination and possibly order blood tests and a sputum culture. A chest x-ray may also be ncessary if the symptoms suggest the presence of flu related pneumonia.

Alternative Therapies

Although they are unlikely to shorten the course of the flu, a member of alternative therapies may alleviate the symptoms of the illness.

Aromatherapy

Therapists recommend placing 5 drops of cinnamon oil in 1 tablesppon of water and inhaling the scent three times a day; they also advcise messages or baths using lemon, pine needle, or rosemary oil.

Hydrotherapy 

For the achiness of flu, take a hot shower or bath. Also, try soaking your feet in a basin of hot water for 20 mintues twice a day.

Self-Treatment

Bed rest, while your body fights the virus, is the best medicine. If you have a fever, drink extra fluids, including fruit juice, tea, and broth to prevent dehydration. Extra fluids also thin any lung secretions. For a sore throat, try gargling with warm, double strength tea, or warm salt water. Acetaminophen, aspirinm nasal sprays, and decongestant may relieve minor discomfort. Howeverm do not give aspirin to anyone under the age of 18 who has viral infection because it increases the risk of Reye’s syndrome ( a rare, potentially fatal disorder tha tcauses brain inflammation and swelling and severe liver damage).

So the next time you encounter a cold or a flu, remember DOC which stands for:

D - Don’t work, get a good rest.

O - Over the counter medicine is good enough to treat initial symptoms like running nose, fever and body malaise.

C - Consult your doctor, if symptoms persist.

Posted: August 14, 2008 Comments (0)

How to get better from break up

It’s hard to get over a breakup. The main reason is because most men cling to a small hope of getting back with the woman who just broke their heart.This is a tough cycle. First, you feel the pain of the break up itself. Then you add gut wrenching hope that she will one day realize she made a mistake, fill regretful for breaking up with you, and come back to you again. And the last pain is felt: the realization she is out of your life for good.Fortunately there is a way to make a breakup less painful and be able to recover from it quickly. I will discuss exactly how to do that in this article.

In a relationship, there are things you can control and things you can’t control. Once a woman has decided to leave you, you cannot prevent her from doing so. However you can control how you respond to her leaving. Most men respond by making the situation a lot harder to go through than it has to be. Their behavior typically is along these lines: they mope around for a while, looking at photographs taken of them and their lover, and generally get trapped in thinking about how things were.Danger: this path to breakup recovery is fraught with peril. What you are doing is intensify your emotions of grief, compounding your loneliness by revisiting what once was that will never be again. This is typically how most men handle a breakup.there is a better way. I’ll be the first to admit that breaking up is hard. But to lessen the sting, you mustn’t dwell on your negative emotions. Instead of thinking about the past, think about the future.I think it’s important for you to understand that a breakup is typically harder for a man than a woman. Why? Because a key aspect of recovering from a break up is by going out with new people. Men in general have a tougher time with going out with new women than women do with men. Women can simply go to any social situation and have men approach her. A distraught, grief stricken man not only has to deal with his emotions, but he must also prepare for approaching a new woman and feel the pain of being rejected again.

To make matters worse, he must approach her in a diminished capacity, still carrying around his sadness for his recent breakup.

So how does a man recover from a breakup quickly? First, you must snap out of your "victim mentally". You only start to recover from a break up when you stop feeling sorry for yourself. Repeat to yourself: "Life will go on." It always does.Next, you must avoid living in the past and revisiting those painful emotions. Sometimes you have to amputate a limb before the disease can spread to the body. It’s painful, but it’s quick and better than the alternative. You must have the same approach with old love letters, mementos and photos. Burn them or throw them away. If you find this too difficult to do, it means you are still stuck hoping she will come back to you and you are in a desperate situation.

By destroying these mementos though, you will give yourself permission to move on. this is very important.It’s also important to surround yourself with others who DO care about you. Close friends and family. Now is a perfect time to strengthen those relationships. Chances are you have probably neglected a few of them because of all the time you were spending with your now ex-girlfriend. Also, use this time to do something for yourself to increase your self esteem. Learn something new, improve your skills, or start getting in better shape.Finally, don’t let her control your life anymore. Make a commitment to get back out in the dating world and find someone who is of even higher quality than her. If you want to talk about increasing your self esteem, nothing is better for this than finding someone even more desirable and attractive than the person who broke up with you.

Doing so will actually make you thank her for breaking up with you in the first place.

Posted: August 12, 2008 Comments (0)